Urgent timing help needed.

The damper on your car and the one in the drawing are not the same. The drawing has the "3 marks" on the right side of the hole, your damper has them on the left. There's nothing you can do to make your damper match the drawing, unless it's reversible and also has marks on the inside.

 

My damper doesn't even have the "3 marks", only has the 2 holes

 

The three drill points are not for timing. I am guessing that they are for balancing the pulley. The timing mark is the notch on the outside diameter of the pulley, as should in the zoomed in circle in the right side of the diagram that you posted.

 

It is very hard to see the notch in the OD of the pulley in your picture, but it does not seem to be at TDC. Can you post a new picture taken more at the top of the pulley showing the notch?

 

That's correct those marks are for balancing the pulley they have nothing to do with anything to set timing engine or anything those three dots could be anywhere on the pulley If you get an aluminum light white one it won't have any at all I don't think they make them for the one NZ. But they do for other vehicles and I have them on some vehicles. All your concerned about is the notches that are ground on the very outer part of the v and of course whatever timing marks are on the chain and are on the sprocket looks like you're good to go You should be running and driving not worrying for the most part everything looks pretty spot-on.