Thank you for your message, though I wouldn't say he IS and a**hole, rather, that he CAN be a a**hole. We all can be at times! I have a tendency to be a little sensitive when someone thinks I'm stupid. Perhaps because of the changes in attitudes towards what women are capable of over the last 30 years. Though many still do not think women have any brains, especially when it comes to automobiles. Funny thing is, I'm the one who repairs things and has an idea of what might be wrong with things around our home. As I said, thanks again for your message. Blessings, Phyllis