eHarmony failure

There you go. You can open your mouth or you can have a relationship. You can't do both.

 

With the proper equipment, you can be warm and dry in the nastiest of weather. Although, carrying even lightweight versions of your kitchen, bedroom, and bathroom with you can be kinda heavy. In your position, I'd do the same thing.

 

Don't forget to tip your guide well. I always tip my Sherpas generously when I climb Everest.

 

Well, I think we can all guess why YOU were rejected by eHarmony...

 

"One potato, two potato..."
"Gonna pick me up some beers"
"Coffee coffee coffee!" (The barista lifts 3 coffees up to the counter..or is it 3 cups of coffee...or was the customer just being impatient and only wanted one, like now?)

Can you bear it?

 

You were the guy here who got arrested multiple times for protesting nuclear weapons right? You've got more balls than most men on here, and you always stick by your convictions. You will find a woman who appreciates that. You'll always have my respect.

I think your issue is volume, get yourself more dates and expose yourself to more available women to find "the one". I assume you've done speed dating? Singles cruises?

 

Swingers' parties?

 

I agree that this is a big issue for single people in general. When I was in my early 30's and had decided that it was time to get serious about relationships, my theory was that it was necessary to meet at least 100 women in the likely demographic range to find a suitable partner.

Why? Suppose that your pickiness is such that you will seriously like 10% of the women (within the suitable demographic set) that you meet. You'll have to assume that they in turn will like 10% of the men that they meet.

0.1 x 0.1 = 0.01, or 1 out of 100

So this is why if you are not on a path to meet lots of suitable potential partners, it is going to be really tough.

 

In other words, you have about as much interest in finding a partner as GM does in building a reliable alternative-fuel vehicle.

Sure, you may SAY you do, but if you really wanted to you would have done it by now.

 

Like I've said before, Daniel... you need a wing-woman.
Figure out some venues that are promising - parties, museum events, concerts, benefits, etc., then get a friendly female to go with you who can chat up people, and introduce you around. You'll need someone who is familiar with you and your interests, your hobbies, and your good qualities, so she can work them easily into the conversation, like:
"Oh, you skydive? You should meet my friend Daniel, he's thrown himself out of planes! He also swims with sharks and dolphins. Hey Daniel, meet [lady's name], she likes to skydive, too..."

Be sure you pick a friend who is an extrovert, okay?

 

Ive read that a single women over 40 has a better chance of being kidnapped by a terrorist than getting married.
So to cover all bases,look into becoming a terrorist .
Then every single woman over 40 will be succumbing to your statistical advantage.

 

Just saying it 'cause I like you.

 

its like any "questionnaire".

u either provide an answer that applies to yourself or provide one that conforms to the shape of the "answers" provided. that means you must be perfect square or a perfect circle.

 

I'm turning 40 in a few months. No pressure.

:rip: <----- My chances.

 

I'm just glad you tried something Daniel.

FWIW I met my girlfriend on Match.com and we are having a great time together!