This is off-topic, but it is one of my pet peeves. Some words are misused so commonly that their definitions become altered. Decimate is one such word. The word "decimate" literally means to kill one in ten. "Deci" is one-tenth. So if you decimate something, you knock it down by 10%. This is a far cry from "annihilate" or "destroy", which is how most people use the word "decimate". Rant over, climbs down from soap box. Tom
My wife and I met through Scienceconnection.com. Great site that screens participants. Everyone has an interest in science.
I didn't intend to beat you up. Your use is the common definition. My rant is general. "Severely reduced" works nicely for me. Tom
Oh, you're not that bad at all. (Plus, we enjoy it.) Has anyone told you to get a room yet? Oops. Yeah, I guess they have. :redface:
My spouse is deeply monogamous. Therefore, so am I - in practice, anyway, which is acceptable to him. I was being hypothetical. And, I was talking about societal acceptance, not legalities. I have friends that are either in long-term poly families, or who are in 'couple'-hoods that have 'options', shall we say. If it's within the agreement of the people involved, and it's working for them, then I think that's great.
Now, there's flirting or Flirting and also "flirting" but then there's FLIRTING. So is Flirting really so bad?
I like your thinking, infact ... I couldn't live in an open relationship, I don't want to share a woman's affections with another person. I would give all of me and I have and can be and in return I would like the same. Maybe I'm asking too much. I can't be bothered looking back now, but someone said nice guys finish dead last, I thought women like that? Or at least a dead heat.
That's it, Pat. Ladies first, nice guys finish last. :yo: Ties are always more exciting, because they lead to overtime.